TIQ aka Lala: A Daughter Of The Best A Sister To The Awesomeness Siblings A Mother of 8 A Grandmother of 16 A Mother To The Motherless And Fatherless Children A Christian TIQ, A BUSINESS WOMAN: CEO of TIQ Worldwide A National Director of Sales And Marketing A Blogger A Writer An Aspiring Humanitarian Advocate For Domestic Violence Advocate for Plus Size Men And Women.... My name is Lala, I'm known by many as TIQ. TIQ stands for Thy Island Queen, THY it's a spiritual term, ISLAND referencing my culture, and QUEEN the royal lineage that I'm blessed with from my Tongan, and Samoan side. I am mixed with Tongan, Samoan, Tahitian, and German. I am a Polynesian Businesswoman who enjoys life. I love people from all walks of life. I am a humorous person. I am a non-judgmental person. I also believe that most of us women have that vocal voice of a Queen to support that man who fit's to be King - if you find him ladies do let me know. My advice to those who feel they cannot be in control of certain situations. Remember-Never be inferior to another - During this day and age, you do not want to be bossy and be controlling. Learn to master the beauty of being a woman that everyone will respect and honor. I have a passion to write/blog about my own experiences that I face daily from the past to the present. Nothing stops me, I keep moving towards the light that I visualize at the end of the tunnel I suppose; I owe my life to the man upstairs for loving me and believing in me. I love God and when I say "I Love God" I do not say it just to make myself look good for others. I do not care what you or others think or say...NO. I let it be known.... because my God has never faileth from protecting me through the adversities I have faced alone. I also want to add - I do not play follow the leader. I am a leader, therefore no one scripts what I say nor tells me what I should do. I hope my writings of my own experiences living in the real world will help you find the answers you seek. Whatever you are going through in life may my words and experiences comfort your soul by lifting a load of burdens off your shoulders. Some of my blogs or writings can be confrontational and very intense..... But, "It Is What It Is." It's reality- I am very vocal, but "It Is What It Is." I am very blunt, but "It Is What It Is" - I'm honest and I ONLY steer away from being truthful to protect the innocent. I am a woman that has fought a great battle dealing with greedy, selfish, ignorant, judgmental, hypocrite of people that evolves my world. Talk about dysfunctional, but "It Is What It Is." I move on with life while some of you are still living in the world of Assumptions. Don't be offended of what I write? Well, let's just say ...... "It Is What It Is!"